Fat, Sexy & Free: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Play in Our Bodies with Luna Matatas
Wednesday, August 13, 2025
5:30pm PT / 6:30pm MT / 7:30pm CT / 8:30pm ET
Duration: 60 minutes
Please note: this workshop is for people who are 18 years of age or older.
Fat folks deserve expansive, erotic, liberated pleasure—on our terms.
In this one-hour, no-shame, all-pleasure workshop, Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas (she/her) leads a bold, body-liberating class for anyone ready to bust beauty myths, reclaim their gaze, and reconnect with the power of their eroticism.
We’ll explore what it means to stop performing beauty for other people—and start playing for ourselves instead. This class centers on fat liberation as a path to erotic empowerment, helping you unpack who benefits from you feeling unsexy, and how to take that power back. You’ll get practical sexy tips for confidence, tools for hotter sex, pleasure techniques and toy recommendations.
What we’ll cover:
Debunking myths about fat bodies, sex, and desire
Navigating fetishization vs. empowered kinkiness
Bedroom communication skills
Fat-friendly pleasure tools, toys, and bedroom hacks
How to reclaim your erotic gaze for sexual confidence
You’ll leave with:
Practical tips for better sex and solo pleasure in your body
Journaling prompts and resources to keep the reclamation going
A re-imagined relationship to your pleasure, your power, and your play
This class is for all genders and sexualities. Fat-centered, shame-free, and pleasure focused.
This event will not be available on YouTube, so be sure to attend live.
NAAFA events are for fat people and fat-positive friends of all sizes. Our virtual events are offered free of charge thanks to the generosity of our community of NAAFA donors. To support this and other NAAFA programming, visit naafa.org/give.
This event is presented via Zoom, in English, and with English auto-captions by Otter.ai. ASL Interpreting by Pro Bono ASL.
The National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance is a 501(c)3 charitable organization with a mission to change perceptions of fat and to end size discrimination through advocacy, education, and support.
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Luna Matatas (she/her) is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 20 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops internationally. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Luna is a creator and facilitator of over 35 Sexy Skills on-demand webinars that help people navigate the adult sex education skills we all need. She teaches a range of pleasure-based topics from how to have threesomes, developing erotic dominance and submission skills to seducing the butt and more. Coming from a background in public health, Luna prioritizes relatable, inclusive and accurate information to create and continue conversations. She has worked in Eastern and Southern Africa, Canada, US and through virtual education in over 20 countries. Luna's sex expertise has been featured in media like Women's Health, Men's Health, Cosmo, Refinery 29, Vice, Playboy, and Shape. She has been featured on countless podcasts helping to normalize conversations around shame, pleasure and relationships. She created Peg the Patriarchy® as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. Follow her @lunamatatas
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